Blog Calm Steps 1 The CARB Steps🦋 Introducción.
- Mariela Vega
- Jul 9
- 1 min read

🦋 Introducción (bilingüe)
When we begin to support a child with autism or additional needs, we often feel lost. Where do I start? What can I do when challenging behaviour happens? How can I support my child without punishment?
At Calm Steps, we believe change begins with understanding, connection, and calm steps. That’s why today we share with you a simple guide based on ABA principles: the CARP steps, created to support you with love.
🌟 The CARP Steps
C – Connect
Before correcting, we connect. Make eye contact, come down to their level, offer your presence without pressure. A child who feels seen and safe is more ready to listen.
A – Anticipate
Prevention is key. Use visuals, schedules or clear words to anticipate what’s coming. Gentle warnings help reduce anxiety and prevent challenging behaviour.
R –Regulate
Instead of saying “no”, offer an alternative. Redirecting means guiding without punishment. For example: “We don’t jump on the sofa, but we can jump on the floor.”
P – Bring Positive Reinforcement
When your child does something positive, celebrate it! Reinforcement is recognition. A “well done!”, a smile or a hug can encourage repetition of that behaviour.
🌈 Closing: Love and Calm Steps
You don’t have to be perfect. You just need to be present, with intention and love. The CARB steps are a guide, not a rigid rule. Every family finds their rhythm.
Would you like more visual tools to apply these steps? Explore our free Toolkit here: [www.calmstepsconsulting.com]. And if you’d like close support, feel free to reach us here: [www.calmsteps.consulting/contact]

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